Oct

I want to be Happy

deerwood on October 7th, 2008

Do you want to be happy? I think few people would say ‘no’ to that. Here is one author’s tips on how to be happy.

Do You Really Want to be Happy?

Do you think you need your life circumstances to change before you can be happy? Most people have long held ideas in their head of what they think will make them happy and can’t be happy unless those things happen. Well, once most people get something they have wanted, they probably won’t be satisfied for long. They realize there is still a hole that needs to be filled with happiness, so they must get something bigger and better, and surely that will make them happy. Some people just don’t allow themselves to reach contentment. Do you notice that you can’t stay satisfied either?

Even when things dont seem great, the bonus is that a change in your mindset is all it takes to feel better and be happy. Here are 3 steps to help you be happy.

1) Make sure you are thankful for what you already have, dont take things for granted. It’s a very positive state of mind. Instead of focusing on all that you don’t have, focus on all that you do have. Even focus on and be grateful for the small things. This positive thinking brings happiness.

2) Take a step back and see the flowers through the trees – you wont be enjoying life much if you are always all over the place. For real contentment, make time for yourself so you can dream, relax, and enjoy the good things life has to offer. Enjoy the simple pleasures of life. Take in and enjoy the smile of a loved one. Do things you enjoy regularly. Reading good books or listening to music you like are good ways to enjoy life’s simple pleasures.

3) Enjoy the journey- Most people are so focused on the end result, that they don’t pay attention to the journey of getting there. People focus too much on finally “getting there” and think that will finally make them happy. Don’t forget about the journey to get where you are trying to go, because you can gain a lot from your journey too. Make sure that when you hit the target, when you achieve what you set out too, that you give yourself a pat on the back. The more you enjoy the journey, the more you’ll enjoy the destination.

Sometimes happiness is simply something that you choose. Certain situations can make it extremely difficult to feel happy, but a lot of times people let small things bother them so much, that they are not allowing themselves to be happy. Don’t make a mountain out of a mole hill. Choose to be happy and embrace it. It will make your life a lot better.

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